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Affirmations for Enjoying the Holiday Season

Along with good cheer and blessings, the holidays can offer plenty of things to stress about – last-minute gift hunting, too many parties, fear of overindulging, family drama… it’s the rare person these days who can sail through the holiday season unscathed by stress! Cause #1: Family drama. Yes, holiday gatherings are supposed to be joyful, but in reality, family relations can be complicated and since pretty much everybody’s stressed out to begin with, festivities can turn ugly in a …

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Do Other People’s Vibrations Really Affect You?

Do Other People’s Vibrations Really Affect You?

Do you believe you are affected by, or immune to, other people’s vibrations? The answer lies somewhere in the middle, as you’ll see in a moment. When someone in a bad mood walks into a room, they can instantly bring everyone down. It works the other way, too – a happy person can uplift a room full of grumpy people. From an energetic standpoint, the energy of the person who walked into the room changed the vibration of the people …

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A New Spin on Positive Affirmations

A New Spin on Positive Affirmations

Usually when one speaks of Positive Affirmations, it means to repeat positive statements to encourage yourself to achieve goals. “I can succeed,” “I am a good person,” “I am loved.” But what if you take that positive energy and share it with others, share it with the world? Imagine what might happen. Don’t keep positive affirmations to yourself. They are, like love, better when shared. I stumbled upon this opportunity: Recently a friend told me about a successful project in …

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What It Means to Be Fair in Relationships

What It Means to Be Fair in Relationships

We are told from our earliest experiences in childhood to ‘be nice to others’ and ‘think of others first’ but what exactly does this mean? Too often our goals to ‘be kind’ can be taken too far. In every relationship there must be a healthy balance. Especially for many women, who still carry the residue of the expectations of past generations (where the woman takes care of the house and her man) is still seeping into their lives; true equality …

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How to Know if You’re With the Right Person

How to Know if You’re With the Right Person

With a 50% divorce rate it’s becoming increasingly rare to find couples who just seem like they’re meant for each other. It’s so rare, in fact, to come across a truly happy long-term couple. If you’re in one of those awesome “peanut butter and jelly” relationships, you may find yourself questioning it as if it were too good to be true. To put your fears at ease, here are some guideposts that help you… not to “know” if you’re in …

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15 Relationship Killers to Avoid

15 Relationship Killers to Avoid

With a 50% divorce rate, it’s easy to stress out about your relationship. Here are some ways that people unwittingly slide down the slippery slope toward divorce, and how to catch destructive patterns before they become insurmountable problems. 1. Too much, too soon. Great relationships don’t start with a sprint. Healthier, happier relationships take their time. You want to get to know each other and become comfortable with each other. If you feel that your partner is trying to get …

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Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Anyone who desires a better life is probably wondering how to manifest it. But the word “manifest” has such a negative connotation, these days! Many people believe that it’s magic, or New Age woo-woo – when in reality it all boils down to your beliefs and their resulting actions and consequences. Your beliefs create automatic thought patterns. These thought patterns create emotions. Your decisions and actions are based on your emotions. OK, you probably know that. But there’s more to …

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Manifesting Affirmations That Accelerate Your Results

Manifesting Affirmations That Accelerate Your Results

There’s a really interesting and effective manifesting tip that will accelerate your ability to manifest anything you want. It’s in the form of a question – literally, asking your mind, “how did I achieve this?” This approach really gets your creativity going because it’s a backwards approach. Normally, we approach manifesting from a “here I am now and this is what I want” point of view. That’s why manifesting seems so hard – and why goals can seem overwhelming! We …

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How the Vibration of Fear Affects You

How the Vibration of Fear Affects You

Fear is a very powerful negative vibration. It’s easy to be fearful, given the chaos of the world and the many stresses we’re all faced with on a daily basis! You may not realize just how powerfully the vibration of fear affects you. You may be living with more fear than you think! Here are some symptoms of a fear vibration, and what you can do to neutralize it and achieve a higher vibration of happiness, confidence and love. 1. …

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Manifesting Tips for the Skeptical

Manifesting Tips for the Skeptical

Manifesting is something thought of as magic and “woo-woo” by anyone who has grown up believing that hard work, perseverance and sacrifice are the only ways to get what you want. Many manifesting instructions lean heavily on the spiritual elements of bringing what you want into your physical reality. These include goal-setting, visualization, positive thinking and affirmations. If you read books like “The Secret” you might think that that’s all there is to it, and then when it doesn’t work, …

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