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No-Nonsense Ways to Lift Your Vibration Using Words

No-Nonsense Ways to Lift Your Vibration Using Words

Your words have great creative power. Language is one way that humans direct energy and create our lives – consciously or unconsciously. In a matter of seconds, our mood can change by hearing an unkind word or a kind word… our lives can change if we hear a “yes” we’ve been longing for or a “no” we’ve been dreading… and our future is created right now, as we speak it! We talk ourselves into and out of things all the …

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What a Happy Relationship Really Looks Like

What a Happy Relationship Really Looks Like

Many people spend too much time worrying about the health of their relationship – and with good reason, as divorce rates are skyrocketing. So what does a happy relationship really look like? It’s NOT what you think: hot sex all the time, putting each other on a pedestal or any fairytale stuff. What happy relationships have is a pervasive sense of love and respect that they have not allowed to diminish from stress, overwhelm, disappointment of unmet expectations or the …

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Positive Affirmations Are Everywhere – Do You See Them?

Positive Affirmations Are Everywhere – Do You See Them?

An affirmation is a declaration of something you believe to be true, or would like to become true. When you say an affirmation, you are declaring the truth of an idea that you are wanting to manifest in your life. It is real to you in your imagination, and by repetition, it will become real in your subconscious mind, and then it will drive your actions until it becomes real in your life. But did you know that  affirmations of …

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Today’s Big Q: Where’s Your Vibration?

Today’s Big Q: Where’s Your Vibration?

Keeping your vibration high requires constant vigilance. As you go through your day, you can encounter many things that drain your energy, lower your vibration and ruin your mood. It could be something as ridiculous as having to wait more than 2 minutes to place your order at the coffee shop, or as persistent as a boss who doesn’t appreciate you. Traffic, bad news, overwhelm, the demands of relationships and families, not enough time off, financial pressures… yikes, it can …

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Is Fear Affecting Your Relationships?

Is Fear Affecting Your Relationships?

Is fear affecting your relationships? Answer the following questions to find out: Do you feel jealous when your partner is out with friends? Do you use sex as a tool to manipulate your partner? Do you feel depressed when your partner is away? Do you feel incomplete without your partner? Do you try to control your partner in any way? Do you feel the need to connect with your partner many times during the day via text, calls or other …

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My Secret to Effective Affirmations

My Secret to Effective Affirmations

Affirmations can be an extremely effective way to raise your vibration, imprint empowering beliefs and motivate yourself. Many people have tried using affirmations and some will insist that they don’t work. They do – but it’s not a quick and easy fix. It takes time to create and reinforce new neural pathways – more than the 21 days often presented by personal growth teachers. If a belief contradicts a belief you already have, it’s going to take persistence and repetition …

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Surprising Ways to Raise the Vibration in Your Home

Surprising Ways to Raise the Vibration in Your Home

Raising your home’s vibration is an ongoing process. Your environment contributes to your vibration, and it absorbs yours (a clear example of this is clutter and dirt – the more cluttered your home, the more anxious and depressed you become, and as a result you may feel overwhelmed and your vibration will plummet). Keeping the energy in your home happy and healthy will help your vibration. Here are a few surprising ways to raise your home’s vibration: 1. Declutter – …

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Beginner’s Guide to Vibrations

Beginner’s Guide to Vibrations

We live in a vibrational universe. Everything, from the most massive planet to subatomic particles is nothing more than energy with a very specific vibrational pattern. Even things that are intangible like thoughts are vibrating energy. This energy is governed by some undisputable universal laws, including the Law of Attraction (like attracts like). Most people are interested in their own vibrations with regard to creating a happier life, and you’re about to learn the secrets. But first, what’s the big …

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5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

You may have read about how you create your own reality; but you’re probably aware that learning to do so consciously, for pleasing results, isn’t always easy. It’s not that the concept is difficult, it’s that the Law of Attraction, vibration and manifesting have been misunderstood, mostly because people receive incomplete information. Here are some common myths, and explanations to help you understand your place and power in this vibrational universe. Myth #1: All you have to do is visualize …

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50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

What makes a relationship successful? Any relationship is a complicated mix of two different personalities with different needs, expectations, desires and ideas. Here’s a list of things that any couple can work on to improve the situation and maintain a happy, healthy realtionship. But first… how do YOU define a successful relationship? Not all couples have the same expectations and yours might not fit into these parameters. For example, the ideal for many modern couples is to be equal partners; …

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