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How to Make Your Partner Change

How to Make Your Partner Change

It’s been said that you can’t change your partner, you can only change yourself and/or your perception of your partner. But… while you can’t make a person change, you can motivate them to change by initiating changes in yourself that help the relationship. One way to do this is to visualize the ideal situation. How do you envision your partner to be, and more importantly, how do you envision YOURSELF to be? What attitudes and behaviors are you embodying in …

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How to Create Happy Household Harmony

How to Create Happy Household Harmony

Sex, money and communication seem to get all the attention when it comes to relationship bliss, but what about the simple things of co-habitating and household chores? Does one take the lion’s share and resents the other for not pitching in? Is there a messy person living with a neat freak? If your household isn’t running as smoothly as it could, here are some practical and vibration-raising strategies that will help you share the responsibilities and help create a true …

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Self-Love: the Key to Happiness

Self-Love: the Key to Happiness

Just like you need to give love in order to receive love, your happiness begins inside you – and self-love is the best place to start. After all, if you don’t love yourself, then nothing you do will bring you much pleasure. Here are some ideas on loving yourself unconditionally so that your love and happiness bubbles out from you like a joyful fountain. 1. Commit to self-care every single day. That means exercise – eat right – and practice …

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How Do You Know (S)he Is the One?

How Do You Know (S)he Is the One?

With a 50% divorce rate, seeing a happy couple that’s in it for the long run, is almost like seeing Sasquatch on a picnic. If you’re in a young relationship, or just starting to date someone new, or thinking about asking a certain someone out… here are some admittedly unscientific but intuitive ways to tell if (s)he is the ONE. (Just for the sake of simplicity, let’s assume that we are talking about the ideal man). 1. You don’t hesitate …

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The Ugly Effects of the Vibration of Anger

The Ugly Effects of the Vibration of Anger

  Anger is a hot emotion that can override logic, reason and in many cases, compassion and understanding. It escalates situations, quickly and explosively or by simmering and boiling as resentment until the sheer force of it erupts. Anger is easily triggered and it’s a powerful low vibration. I’m not suggesting you avoid becoming angry. You have every right to be angry sometimes. The question is, are you letting the vibration of anger control you, or have you mastered the …

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Affirmations That Say “I Love You!”

Affirmations That Say “I Love You!”

It is said that in order to receive love, we must give love. All love starts with self-love for if you cannot love yourself, you cannot behave lovingly toward another human being and expect to receive love. Love is essential. For those who don’t find love with other people, they turn to animals and lavish love on our animal friends. As with any affirmation, it’s essential to repeat it daily, and with emotion, for a minimum of 2 months until …

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A Happy Relationship Starts With You!

A Happy Relationship Starts With You!

It’s that time of year again – mid-February, when Valentine’s Day fills our eyes with hearts and roses and our tummies with chocolates But if your relationship is struggling and you just aren’t feeling the love right now, I’d like to introduce you to a new way of thinking that will have you looking at your relationship through the eyes of love. In short, a happy relationship starts with you Think about your partner for a moment. Are you blaming …

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Make the 9-5 Happier: Boost Workplace Vibrations

Make the 9-5 Happier: Boost Workplace Vibrations

Is your workplace suffering from the low vibrations of stress? Boredom? Interpersonal conflict? Unrealistic expectations? Lack of “team”? Many people suffer from workplace dissatisfaction, but there are a few things you can do to boost your workplace vibrations First, ask yourself, “What makes me happy at work?” (Don’t automatically say “nothing” – really think about something, even something very small, that you enjoy about your job. Hang on to that feeling for a moment. Now, think about some of these …

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Put ‘Em to Music: the Joy of Singing Affirmations

Put ‘Em to Music: the Joy of Singing Affirmations

I’ve talked before about the importance and effectiveness of affirmations. The keys to successfully using positive statements are: repetition and emotion. I used to sometimes find myself repeating my affirmations in a kind of drone, just mumbling them mindlessly. Yes, eventually these messages imprinted in my subconscious, but I’ll tell you what, I don’t let that happen anymore – that passionless, monotone recital of positive statements. Why? Because I don’t feel like waiting around for that because there are things …

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What Your Home Says About Your Vibration

What Your Home Says About Your Vibration

You may have heard the ancient saying, “as without, so within” or something similar. Basically, the reality you see outside yourself is a reflection of the reality you hold inside yourself. And if the reality you see outside yourself is not to your liking, your home is the very first place to look for clues about your inner reality. It’s familiar and safe, and by taking care of the outward manifestations of negative thinking right here at home, you can …

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