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50 Affirmations for Inner Peace

50 Affirmations for Inner Peace

Repeating positive statements are useful in “rewiring” your brain to focus on what is good in your life instead of being stuck in a worry loop of what is not so great. They can help you achieve or maintain inner peace and well-being. They can help restore emotional balance that is upset by life’s pressures and unexpected negative surprises. They help keep your focus on the good, so more of what you consider good will come into your life.   …

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The Secret of the Vibration of Lies

The Secret of the Vibration of Lies

All words have a vibration that affects both the speaker and the listener. But more so than the vibration is the intention behind the words, so lets explore the vibration of lies. We say lying is wrong, and it creates all kinds of stress and problems so… why do we lie? The underlying reason for all lies is fear, as you’ll see in a moment. Some lies have become socially acceptable – such as protecting someone from harm, or lies …

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Coping with Insecurity in Relationships

Coping with Insecurity in Relationships

Insecurity in relationships can destroy the bond you have, as one of you clings desperately and the other feels smothered and pulls away. Many of us feel unworthy, on some level, of being loved. Why would anybody want me? Do I deserve to be with someone this awesome? Insecurity comes from fear of loss. Here you are, in a good relationship, and you live with the constant fear that your partner might get sick of you and leave you. Insecurity …

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Health Benefits of a Loving Partnership

Health Benefits of a Loving Partnership

Finding that special someone is great for your health. It’s a fact! And no coincidence that love is depicted using a heart shape. Research shows those in love live longer, have stronger hearts and can even look younger. So ditch the expensive anti-aging products and bring out the candles and the massage oil! Would you be surprised to learn that being in love can lead to a higher quality of life, lower the risk of substance abuse and greatly improve …

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Are You in Sync with Your Partner?

Are You in Sync with Your Partner?

Do you often find yourself wondering what your partner is really thinking? Does it really feel like men are from Mars and women from Venus? Or maybe your partner’s signals are so confusing he/she feels like an alien from a completely undiscovered planet. Have you been asking yourself “Who is this stranger in my bed?” or “Could I have my understanding Lover back again”?? Relationship breakdowns are painful and frustrating. Tempers flare, hurtful words are used, defensive walls start building, …

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How to Make Your Partner Change

How to Make Your Partner Change

It’s been said that you can’t change your partner, you can only change yourself and/or your perception of your partner. But… while you can’t make a person change, you can motivate them to change by initiating changes in yourself that help the relationship. One way to do this is to visualize the ideal situation. How do you envision your partner to be, and more importantly, how do you envision YOURSELF to be? What attitudes and behaviors are you embodying in …

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How to Create Happy Household Harmony

How to Create Happy Household Harmony

Sex, money and communication seem to get all the attention when it comes to relationship bliss, but what about the simple things of co-habitating and household chores? Does one take the lion’s share and resents the other for not pitching in? Is there a messy person living with a neat freak? If your household isn’t running as smoothly as it could, here are some practical and vibration-raising strategies that will help you share the responsibilities and help create a true …

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Self-Love: the Key to Happiness

Self-Love: the Key to Happiness

Just like you need to give love in order to receive love, your happiness begins inside you – and self-love is the best place to start. After all, if you don’t love yourself, then nothing you do will bring you much pleasure. Here are some ideas on loving yourself unconditionally so that your love and happiness bubbles out from you like a joyful fountain. 1. Commit to self-care every single day. That means exercise – eat right – and practice …

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How Do You Know (S)he Is the One?

How Do You Know (S)he Is the One?

With a 50% divorce rate, seeing a happy couple that’s in it for the long run, is almost like seeing Sasquatch on a picnic. If you’re in a young relationship, or just starting to date someone new, or thinking about asking a certain someone out… here are some admittedly unscientific but intuitive ways to tell if (s)he is the ONE. (Just for the sake of simplicity, let’s assume that we are talking about the ideal man). 1. You don’t hesitate …

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The Ugly Effects of the Vibration of Anger

The Ugly Effects of the Vibration of Anger

  Anger is a hot emotion that can override logic, reason and in many cases, compassion and understanding. It escalates situations, quickly and explosively or by simmering and boiling as resentment until the sheer force of it erupts. Anger is easily triggered and it’s a powerful low vibration. I’m not suggesting you avoid becoming angry. You have every right to be angry sometimes. The question is, are you letting the vibration of anger control you, or have you mastered the …

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