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How to Know if You’re With the Right Person

How to Know if You’re With the Right Person

With a 50% divorce rate it’s becoming increasingly rare to find couples who just seem like they’re meant for each other. It’s so rare, in fact, to come across a truly happy long-term couple. If you’re in one of those awesome “peanut butter and jelly” relationships, you may find yourself questioning it as if it were too good to be true. To put your fears at ease, here are some guideposts that help you… not to “know” if you’re in …

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15 Relationship Killers to Avoid

15 Relationship Killers to Avoid

With a 50% divorce rate, it’s easy to stress out about your relationship. Here are some ways that people unwittingly slide down the slippery slope toward divorce, and how to catch destructive patterns before they become insurmountable problems. 1. Too much, too soon. Great relationships don’t start with a sprint. Healthier, happier relationships take their time. You want to get to know each other and become comfortable with each other. If you feel that your partner is trying to get …

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Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Anyone who desires a better life is probably wondering how to manifest it. But the word “manifest” has such a negative connotation, these days! Many people believe that it’s magic, or New Age woo-woo – when in reality it all boils down to your beliefs and their resulting actions and consequences. Your beliefs create automatic thought patterns. These thought patterns create emotions. Your decisions and actions are based on your emotions. OK, you probably know that. But there’s more to …

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Manifesting Affirmations That Accelerate Your Results

Manifesting Affirmations That Accelerate Your Results

There’s a really interesting and effective manifesting tip that will accelerate your ability to manifest anything you want. It’s in the form of a question – literally, asking your mind, “how did I achieve this?” This approach really gets your creativity going because it’s a backwards approach. Normally, we approach manifesting from a “here I am now and this is what I want” point of view. That’s why manifesting seems so hard – and why goals can seem overwhelming! We …

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How the Vibration of Fear Affects You

How the Vibration of Fear Affects You

Fear is a very powerful negative vibration. It’s easy to be fearful, given the chaos of the world and the many stresses we’re all faced with on a daily basis! You may not realize just how powerfully the vibration of fear affects you. You may be living with more fear than you think! Here are some symptoms of a fear vibration, and what you can do to neutralize it and achieve a higher vibration of happiness, confidence and love. 1. …

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Manifesting Tips for the Skeptical

Manifesting Tips for the Skeptical

Manifesting is something thought of as magic and “woo-woo” by anyone who has grown up believing that hard work, perseverance and sacrifice are the only ways to get what you want. Many manifesting instructions lean heavily on the spiritual elements of bringing what you want into your physical reality. These include goal-setting, visualization, positive thinking and affirmations. If you read books like “The Secret” you might think that that’s all there is to it, and then when it doesn’t work, …

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Why Looking Backwards Lowers Your Vibration

Have you noticed that when you look backwards, your happiness often goes down? Sure, we all love to reminisce about past good times, but most of the time, when we think about the past, we are thinking about what went wrong and we wish we could go back and do things differently. We ruminate on the past, and it’s not good. Ruminating on the past is like being stuck in an infinite loop of regret, shame, pain and other negative …

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The Best Affirmations for Couples

The Best Affirmations for Couples

When you think about your significant other, do you have positive thoughts, or negative thoughts? Are you focused on your partner’s flaws and annoying traits, or do you choose to see the best in your partner – like the reasons you fell in love in the first place? How you see your partner determines in large part how you will respond to him or her; how you will handle disagreements; how you will behave in the relationship; and whether your …

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The Effects of the Vibrations of Lack

The Effects of the Vibrations of Lack

Money is a necessary component of modern life, and the lack of money causes immense stress and puts a heavy negative energetic burden on anyone suffering from the vibrations of lack. Here are some ways that the vibrations of lack are disrupting the flow of abundance to you… and some great solutions! 1. You don’t share. You have a hoarder mentality – when it comes to money, but also other belongings. You instinctively try to protect what’s yours because you …

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A Complete Guide Affirmations for Success

A Complete Guide Affirmations for Success

Affirmations are necessary for success. You don’t have to engage in any touchy-feely “affirmation practice” if that’s not your thing… but you do have to change your self-talk! Many people feel intimidated and unworthy whenever they start on a new project (or anything new). You can use affirmations, or positive self-talk, to change your perspective and approach – and your results. Here are some powerful tips for using affirmations for success, and then you’ll read affirmations you can customize for …

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