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Break the Relationship Habit. Show Yourself Some Love.

Break the Relationship Habit. Show Yourself Some Love.

Break the relationship habit and show yourself some love. Ending a relationship is much like quitting a habit. When the intimate connection with the one we loved is severed, it feels devastating, and we begin to have emotional withdrawals. The person we chose to become close with, has become ingrained in our nervous system. We have become accustomed to certain rituals with our partner, it could be that daily “Good Morning!” text, or the every Wednesday couples’ workout. Now there …

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The All-Time BEST Affirmations for Happiness!

The All-Time BEST Affirmations for Happiness!

You’ve heard it said that happiness is a journey, not a destination. Even better, happiness is a companion! Happiness can – if you let it – stick with you through life’s ups and downs. Sadly, many people let go of happiness’ hand and then they’re wandering through life without the joyful perspective that happiness offers. Samuel Taylor Coleridge said, “The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions, the little, soon-forgotten charities of a kiss, a smile, a kind …

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Is Your Relationship Going to Stand the Test of Time?

Is Your Relationship Going to Stand the Test of Time?

  We all want to love and be loved, but sometimes we stay in relationships long after we know they aren’t right just so we don’t have to be alone. Time is precious, so it is important to be putting your time and love into a healthy relationship, not just a convenient one. All relationships are complicated, require different things and need constant care and work. These are a few elements of healthy relationships that may help you decide whether …

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Give Yourself Permission to Let Go of (Some) Relationships

Give Yourself Permission to Let Go of (Some) Relationships

Years ago, I was given a gift by a friend who happens to be the wisest friend I have. I told her about a disagreement between two relatives. She turned to me and said words that I have shared many times and which I treasure: “Just because you’re related doesn’t mean that you have to be friends.” WHAT? You mean that some sort of relationship doesn’t obligate me to put up with abuse, rudeness, manipulation, lies, etc. from certain people? …

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Good, Good, Good, Good Vibrations!

Good, Good, Good, Good Vibrations!

Back in 1966 the rock group, The Beach Boys, released their song, Good Vibrations. It was a hit; but it might not have been just because it was a good song. Perhaps there was something that connected with the public – an understanding that we all have personal vibrations. People are beginning to better understand that each of us has our own vibration and that this vibration attracts certain people and experiences to us. To be exact, everyone and everything …

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The Secret to Making Creative Visualization Work for You

The Secret to Making Creative Visualization Work for You

Creative visualization has been touted as the way to change your world. But it doesn’t mean “sit around and visualize what you want.” The trick to making it work: you have to take action. This may sound terrifying and intimidating but in reality, it’s the most natural step to making your life what you want it to be. Creative visualization ALWAYS precedes action, and depending on what you visualize, you create an inner atmosphere of self-talk and emotions that drive …

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Affirmations for Enjoying the Holiday Season

Along with good cheer and blessings, the holidays can offer plenty of things to stress about – last-minute gift hunting, too many parties, fear of overindulging, family drama… it’s the rare person these days who can sail through the holiday season unscathed by stress! Cause #1: Family drama. Yes, holiday gatherings are supposed to be joyful, but in reality, family relations can be complicated and since pretty much everybody’s stressed out to begin with, festivities can turn ugly in a …

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Do Other People’s Vibrations Really Affect You?

Do Other People’s Vibrations Really Affect You?

Do you believe you are affected by, or immune to, other people’s vibrations? The answer lies somewhere in the middle, as you’ll see in a moment. When someone in a bad mood walks into a room, they can instantly bring everyone down. It works the other way, too – a happy person can uplift a room full of grumpy people. From an energetic standpoint, the energy of the person who walked into the room changed the vibration of the people …

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A New Spin on Positive Affirmations

A New Spin on Positive Affirmations

Usually when one speaks of Positive Affirmations, it means to repeat positive statements to encourage yourself to achieve goals. “I can succeed,” “I am a good person,” “I am loved.” But what if you take that positive energy and share it with others, share it with the world? Imagine what might happen. Don’t keep positive affirmations to yourself. They are, like love, better when shared. I stumbled upon this opportunity: Recently a friend told me about a successful project in …

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What It Means to Be Fair in Relationships

What It Means to Be Fair in Relationships

We are told from our earliest experiences in childhood to ‘be nice to others’ and ‘think of others first’ but what exactly does this mean? Too often our goals to ‘be kind’ can be taken too far. In every relationship there must be a healthy balance. Especially for many women, who still carry the residue of the expectations of past generations (where the woman takes care of the house and her man) is still seeping into their lives; true equality …

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