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My Secret to Effective Affirmations

My Secret to Effective Affirmations

Affirmations can be an extremely effective way to raise your vibration, imprint empowering beliefs and motivate yourself. Many people have tried using affirmations and some will insist that they don’t work. They do – but it’s not a quick and easy fix. It takes time to create and reinforce new neural pathways – more than the 21 days often presented by personal growth teachers. If a belief contradicts a belief you already have, it’s going to take persistence and repetition …

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Surprising Ways to Raise the Vibration in Your Home

Surprising Ways to Raise the Vibration in Your Home

Raising your home’s vibration is an ongoing process. Your environment contributes to your vibration, and it absorbs yours (a clear example of this is clutter and dirt – the more cluttered your home, the more anxious and depressed you become, and as a result you may feel overwhelmed and your vibration will plummet). Keeping the energy in your home happy and healthy will help your vibration. Here are a few surprising ways to raise your home’s vibration: 1. Declutter – …

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Beginner’s Guide to Vibrations

Beginner’s Guide to Vibrations

We live in a vibrational universe. Everything, from the most massive planet to subatomic particles is nothing more than energy with a very specific vibrational pattern. Even things that are intangible like thoughts are vibrating energy. This energy is governed by some undisputable universal laws, including the Law of Attraction (like attracts like). Most people are interested in their own vibrations with regard to creating a happier life, and you’re about to learn the secrets. But first, what’s the big …

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5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

You may have read about how you create your own reality; but you’re probably aware that learning to do so consciously, for pleasing results, isn’t always easy. It’s not that the concept is difficult, it’s that the Law of Attraction, vibration and manifesting have been misunderstood, mostly because people receive incomplete information. Here are some common myths, and explanations to help you understand your place and power in this vibrational universe. Myth #1: All you have to do is visualize …

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50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

What makes a relationship successful? Any relationship is a complicated mix of two different personalities with different needs, expectations, desires and ideas. Here’s a list of things that any couple can work on to improve the situation and maintain a happy, healthy realtionship. But first… how do YOU define a successful relationship? Not all couples have the same expectations and yours might not fit into these parameters. For example, the ideal for many modern couples is to be equal partners; …

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What to Do With Rollercoaster Emotions

What to Do With Rollercoaster Emotions

Roller coaster emotions can be tough to deal with. One minute you’re happy, the next minute you’re crying… and all the while, you’re probably wondering, “Am I going crazy?” It’s normal for your thoughts to trigger emotions that are the polar opposites of what you were experiencing a moment ago… but you don’t have to get stuck in your emotions or suffer from a wild roller coaster. Here are a few tips on coping with emotions that are all over …

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Why Positivity Beats Negativity; and the Secret for Making It Work

Why Positivity Beats Negativity; and the Secret for Making It Work

Positivity beats negativity. There’s no question about that. To raise your vibration. To attract what’s good in life. Research has proven that positive thinking has tremendous benefits. Positive thinkers are less stressed and happier – and most importantly, they handle stressful situations and adversity better. However, positive thinking can backfire if you don’t do it authentically, as you’re about to find out. Simply thinking positively will change your life, but not to the extent you imagine it will. There’s the …

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10 Superb Ways to Improve Your Life Without Working More

10 Superb Ways to Improve Your Life Without Working More

It’s easy to get sucked into a trap we call “More.” Modern life kind of demands that – more stuff, more money, more achievement, more of everything… but have you ever hit the pause button to see if “more” is better? We often think, “I’ll work hard now so I can make good money, retire early and then live the good life.” Of course you know what the problem is. Actually, problems (plural). One, there’s no guarantee of a tomorrow. …

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Who Else Says Affirmations?

Who Else Says Affirmations?

If you’ve been saying positive affirmations as part of your self-improvement work, I’ll bet you’re wondering who else says affirmations. Does everybody? Does anybody? It will probably surprise you that every single person on this planet says affirmations, every single day. Seriously! I did not say “positive” affirmations, though. The definition of an affirmation is: a declaration, statement, assertion, proclamation or pronouncement. The pure definition has nothing whatsoever to say about positive or negative, or empowering or disempowering, limiting or …

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The Ultimate Happy Relationship Guide

The Ultimate Happy Relationship Guide

I’m sure that you’ve heard that the secret to a happy relationship is communication. You have to be able to express your desires, feelings, needs and ideas openly to your partner – and your partner has to be able to do the same with you. It’s true that couples who have good communication with each other generally report satisfaction in their relationships. Communication skills are crucial. But as relationship researchers have discovered, communication is not the only element – or …

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