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How Do You Know If You’re Saying Affirmations Right?

How Do You Know If You’re Saying Affirmations Right?

Affirmations are a great way to literally change your mind. Through repetition, any statement becomes a belief. If you heard “you’re such a good girl” when you were growing up but your sister heard, “Why can’t you be more like your sister?” then those repeated phrases became part of your individual belief systems. And just as you picked up negative beliefs about yourself, you can override them by using affirmations and so create new empowering beliefs. Many people use affirmations, …

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Always Pay Yourself First, Even If You “Can’t”

Many spiritual practices strongly urge their followers to tithe, or give 10% of their income to the church. You can do the same for yourself. Pay yourself first, and you will increase your wealth significantly. Easier said than done, isn’t it, when you’re in financial distress! If you’re in financial distress, the concept of paying yourself first might seem like an impossibility. If there’s nothing left over after paying the bills – assuming that there “is” enough to pay the …

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Can You Manifest More By Giving?

Money concerns are right up there at the top of common problems. Wouldn’t it be great to lay those to rest once and for all? Just imagine, having enough money so that all of your financial troubles are gone… But it’s not easy, when the mind is conditioned to see lack. The mind makes up stories based on “what is” and we allow the mind to generate these thoughts and feelings, and create self-fulfilling prophecies. We tell ourselves fear-based stories …

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Fuggedaboutit! A Manifesting Secret

Fuggedaboutit! A Manifesting Secret

Trying can be a good thing, but sometimes it puts you squarely in the way of manifesting something you want. Sometimes, you just have to “fugeddaboutit” (forget about it) after you’ve placed your order. It’s our human nature to want to have control over our lives. We sometimes feel that we know the best way to achieve a goal, when in fact this attitude can cause problems if we get stuck on “my way or the highway” thinking. It closes …

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Are You Getting What You Want?

Are You Getting What You Want?

Whether it’s what you want or not, you are reaping what you sow. Your day-to-day life is a product of your creation. Your decisions, your intentions, your actions, they all determine the type of person you are and therefore, the kind of life you live. As we continuously set new goals for ourselves we underestimate just how much control we have over the outcome. A person who knows specifically what they want and has a plan for how they plan …

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40 Affirmations to Manifest Health

40 Affirmations to Manifest Health

Your state of mind and your health are inextricably connected. If your thoughts and emotions are leaning toward the negative, you can literally think yourself sick. The placebo effect is well known. In clinical trials, anywhere from 18-80% of people who believed they are receiving the new “wonder drug” get better (even though they’re taking a sugar pill) but less known is the nocebo effect, or the effect of negative beliefs. Any belief will have an effect. Consider Chinese-Americans who …

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Don’t Tell Me About It – a Manifesting Secret

Don’t Tell Me About It – a Manifesting Secret

If you’re practicing visualization and other manifesting techniques like journaling, creating vision boards and saying affirmations, here’s another tip that will accelerate the process. Don’t tell people about your goals. Have you ever had this happen? You come up to somebody you love and trust, and excitedly share your goal, only to have them helpfully tell you that you can’t do it. What a shock! Here you were, all pumped up and ready to rock this thing, and somebody bursts …

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Put ‘Em to Music: the Joy of Singing Affirmations

Put ‘Em to Music: the Joy of Singing Affirmations

I’ve talked before about the importance and effectiveness of affirmations. The keys to successfully using positive statements are: repetition and emotion. I used to sometimes find myself repeating my affirmations in a kind of drone, just mumbling them mindlessly. Yes, eventually these messages imprinted in my subconscious, but I’ll tell you what, I don’t let that happen anymore – that passionless, monotone recital of positive statements. Why? Because I don’t feel like waiting around for that because there are things …

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The Secret to Making Creative Visualization Work for You

The Secret to Making Creative Visualization Work for You

Creative visualization has been touted as the way to change your world. But it doesn’t mean “sit around and visualize what you want.” The trick to making it work: you have to take action. This may sound terrifying and intimidating but in reality, it’s the most natural step to making your life what you want it to be. Creative visualization ALWAYS precedes action, and depending on what you visualize, you create an inner atmosphere of self-talk and emotions that drive …

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Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Can You Really Manifest a Great Life?

Anyone who desires a better life is probably wondering how to manifest it. But the word “manifest” has such a negative connotation, these days! Many people believe that it’s magic, or New Age woo-woo – when in reality it all boils down to your beliefs and their resulting actions and consequences. Your beliefs create automatic thought patterns. These thought patterns create emotions. Your decisions and actions are based on your emotions. OK, you probably know that. But there’s more to …

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