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How Do You Know If You’re Saying Affirmations Right?

How Do You Know If You’re Saying Affirmations Right?

Affirmations are a great way to literally change your mind. Through repetition, any statement becomes a belief. If you heard “you’re such a good girl” when you were growing up but your sister heard, “Why can’t you be more like your sister?” then those repeated phrases became part of your individual belief systems. And just as you picked up negative beliefs about yourself, you can override them by using affirmations and so create new empowering beliefs. Many people use affirmations, …

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How to Choose Love Over Fear

Did you know that most of your actions on a day-to-day basis are based in fear? It’s quite the shock to realize that, and also to realize how detrimental that can be to your life satisfaction. So much of what comes at us every day is fear-based. We fear not having what others have. We fear not being accepted by the “in crowd” because of who we are and how we look. We fear not being good enough to succeed. …

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11 Delightful Ways To Lift Your Spirits

11 Delightful Ways To Lift Your Spirits

Lifting your spirits when you’re feeling blue can seem like an impossible task. But if you don’t make the effort, you can spiral even deeper into depression. Here are a few things you can do whenever you’re feeling sad, overwhelmed, frustrated, hopeless, helpless or emotionally empty: 1. Think about your dreams. Even if they seem terribly far out of reach, it will do you good to visualize them, feel them, dream about them… there is no harm in dreaming, and …

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My Secret to Effective Affirmations

My Secret to Effective Affirmations

Affirmations can be an extremely effective way to raise your vibration, imprint empowering beliefs and motivate yourself. Many people have tried using affirmations and some will insist that they don’t work. They do – but it’s not a quick and easy fix. It takes time to create and reinforce new neural pathways – more than the 21 days often presented by personal growth teachers. If a belief contradicts a belief you already have, it’s going to take persistence and repetition …

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5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

5 Myths About Vibrations and the Law of Attraction

You may have read about how you create your own reality; but you’re probably aware that learning to do so consciously, for pleasing results, isn’t always easy. It’s not that the concept is difficult, it’s that the Law of Attraction, vibration and manifesting have been misunderstood, mostly because people receive incomplete information. Here are some common myths, and explanations to help you understand your place and power in this vibrational universe. Myth #1: All you have to do is visualize …

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What to Do With Rollercoaster Emotions

What to Do With Rollercoaster Emotions

Roller coaster emotions can be tough to deal with. One minute you’re happy, the next minute you’re crying… and all the while, you’re probably wondering, “Am I going crazy?” It’s normal for your thoughts to trigger emotions that are the polar opposites of what you were experiencing a moment ago… but you don’t have to get stuck in your emotions or suffer from a wild roller coaster. Here are a few tips on coping with emotions that are all over …

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Who Else Says Affirmations?

Who Else Says Affirmations?

If you’ve been saying positive affirmations as part of your self-improvement work, I’ll bet you’re wondering who else says affirmations. Does everybody? Does anybody? It will probably surprise you that every single person on this planet says affirmations, every single day. Seriously! I did not say “positive” affirmations, though. The definition of an affirmation is: a declaration, statement, assertion, proclamation or pronouncement. The pure definition has nothing whatsoever to say about positive or negative, or empowering or disempowering, limiting or …

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How to Have a Positive Attitude at Work

How to Have a Positive Attitude at Work

It’s not always easy to have a positive attitude at work. Or, is it? Cranky and unappreciative bosses, jealous coworkers, stressful deadlines, long work hours, a boring commute and tasks you would rather not be doing can all conspire to make your life miserable. Well, if you let them, that is! Have you heard about the power of positive thinking? Have you wondered if being positive will make any difference? Positive thinking has been around for a very, very long …

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How to Use Daily Affirmations to Improve Your Life

How to Use Daily Affirmations to Improve Your Life

You are what you think. Yes, really! Your self-talk becomes habit, and habit drives your choices and actions and therefore your results. It’s super important to be careful with your thoughts. Most of your thoughts are habits of self-talk that you’ve developed over the years. That isn’t a problem in and of itself, unless your self-talk is disempowering and self-defeating. Remember… self-talk becomes habit, and habit drives your choices and actions. Look around at your circumstances to see the effects …

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Your Word is a Command to the Universe. Yup!

Your Word is a Command to the Universe. Yup!

Your Word is incredibly powerful. Your Word is your collective thoughts and emotions (expressed or not). It’s the self-talk that guides you in making decisions; it’s the beliefs that help you interpret the world; and it’s a direct manifesting order. What you tell yourself you can do, you’ll be able to do; what you tell yourself you can’t do, you won’t do. Another word for your Word is: affirmations. Affirmations are simply statements of fact, whether they are positive or …

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