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Archive : Relationships
Why Are You Scared to Ask for What You Want?

Why Are You Scared to Ask for What You Want?

Do you often feel like people around you are getting what they want in life, while you’re barely receiving the leftover scraps? If anything at all? Are you a hesitant, apprehensive person when it comes to standing up for what you want and need?  Do you find having your needs met is difficult? Well, no need to feel poorly, you’re definitely in good company in this matter. However, it’s not a given that you have to go through life having …

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Affirmations From Others: Are You Listening?

Affirmations From Others: Are You Listening?

Everybody loves it when they are praised. It feels good to be appreciated, doesn’t it? But did you know that it’s hard for most people to accept compliments? Compliments are positive affirmations said to us by other people. How awesome is that, right? So why is it so hard to just smile and say “Thank you!” when we hear compliments? Why do we struggle with what to say in response? Why do we downplay them? Why do we blush and …

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How to Deal with Two Most Common Relationship Challenges

How to Deal with Two Most Common Relationship Challenges

If you’re in a relationship, you’re probably going to have a few bumps in the road. Here are two common relationship challenges and how to address them: 1. Being bored in the relationship. When the sizzle is gone and you settle into daily life together, boredom can creep up and drive a wedge between you. Boredom can come from: You rushed into the relationship without having a solid foundation. Relationships that started out with “on fire” passion (it’s all about …

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Change Your Vibration Instantly With This Simple Trick

Change Your Vibration Instantly With This Simple Trick

Do you need a vibration boost that you can do anywhere, anytime? It takes just a few minutes and it will leave you feeling GREAT. Gratitude is your instant vibrational pick-me-up! There’s more to gratitude than saying “thanks.” To get the most out of the practice, follow these tips: When you name a person that you are expressing gratitude for, be sure to acknowledge why you are grateful. That’s easy when people are nice to you, and it doesn’t have …

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What a Happy Relationship Really Looks Like

What a Happy Relationship Really Looks Like

Many people spend too much time worrying about the health of their relationship – and with good reason, as divorce rates are skyrocketing. So what does a happy relationship really look like? It’s NOT what you think: hot sex all the time, putting each other on a pedestal or any fairytale stuff. What happy relationships have is a pervasive sense of love and respect that they have not allowed to diminish from stress, overwhelm, disappointment of unmet expectations or the …

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Is Fear Affecting Your Relationships?

Is Fear Affecting Your Relationships?

Is fear affecting your relationships? Answer the following questions to find out: Do you feel jealous when your partner is out with friends? Do you use sex as a tool to manipulate your partner? Do you feel depressed when your partner is away? Do you feel incomplete without your partner? Do you try to control your partner in any way? Do you feel the need to connect with your partner many times during the day via text, calls or other …

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50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

50-Point Checklist for Successful Relationships

What makes a relationship successful? Any relationship is a complicated mix of two different personalities with different needs, expectations, desires and ideas. Here’s a list of things that any couple can work on to improve the situation and maintain a happy, healthy realtionship. But first… how do YOU define a successful relationship? Not all couples have the same expectations and yours might not fit into these parameters. For example, the ideal for many modern couples is to be equal partners; …

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The Ultimate Happy Relationship Guide

The Ultimate Happy Relationship Guide

I’m sure that you’ve heard that the secret to a happy relationship is communication. You have to be able to express your desires, feelings, needs and ideas openly to your partner – and your partner has to be able to do the same with you. It’s true that couples who have good communication with each other generally report satisfaction in their relationships. Communication skills are crucial. But as relationship researchers have discovered, communication is not the only element – or …

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Manifesting Love by Looking in All the Right Places

Manifesting Love by Looking in All the Right Places

Manifesting love is something that seems almost impossible sometimes, if you’re single and looking – Where am I supposed to find “the one”? How will I know? The truth is, manifesting love isn’t about looking for that special someone. It’s about clearing the way for them to come into your life. It’s about getting rid of your emotional clutter and preparing yourself for a relationship. This involves physical, emotional, mental and spiritual preparation. Anyone, of any age, can manifest love. …

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How to Ask Questions to Get the Answers You Need

How to Ask Questions to Get the Answers You Need

Have you ever felt like you didn’t get the right answer to your question? Getting the right answers begins with asking the right questions! The trouble is, most of us are terrible at asking questions. Learning how ask questions that deliver great answers is a skill honed by great journalists. Here are their secrets. Socrates said that asking questions helps encourage answers to come from the person asking the questions rather than relying on external answers. This is why open-ended …

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